Feelings, Help & Behaviours

Just discovered something and i realise that sometimes when we do something, we tend to just think about ourselves and unfortunately forget about others. The thing I'm referring here is about other's people feelings. This few months of mood less life have make me forget that so many people actually care for me and in the process i had indirectly hurt their feelings too. I would like to say sorry and apologize to them. Sorry for hurting the feelings. I never really like to calculate so much with my friends, especially my buddies and those close to me. When ever my friends needed help i will always try my best to offer my help to them. Even i have to sacrifice sometimes, i still proceed to help. People say when you help someone, you shouldn't expect back the return. Is true though, but in this realistic world now days... very seldom already. But it also depends on what type of help offered on that time. If just a favour then is really nothing but if is about materials then it should be return someday too. We shall never forget that every help come to us when we needed that time and we shall return it if we are capable of returning it. That's the cycle of life that shows we appreciate and remember our friends help. Is really sad to see my friend feel so sad about what happened to her lately. Human behaviour is actually quite hard to change. When it is hard, it will turns to lie because we cheated ourselves and also other people that we able to change. People say time will heal, time will change someone and time will prove things right. I really hope that the person will really change and never lie again. Just be patient with him and give him some more time to show that actually everyone does care about what he actually do. Behaviour really changes people's life. If you are ego, too proud of yourself, act smart and always lie, then slowly people will leave you alone. People tend to feel tired trying to cope with that person bad attitude all the time. But actually sometimes they never realise because they never thought that all this while they are wrong. It is also depends on people around to be very straight forward only then everything is clearly seen by own selves. I guess this is back to "the ugly truth" because the truth always hurt. But i guess is better to hurt and cure earlier then to wait until too long as it will hurt deeper and maybe by that time wont have any medicine to cure it anymore.


"Good or bad... we must learn to accept the truth.."